I am so sorry for what you are going through. You are in my prayers.
My H is only moving back because he is lacking the cash to maintain his living in a hotel. He still wants to remain separated. But is still sending mixed messages. I had a great DB Coaching session this morning, so I am feeling pretty good and I am drafting my "Four Columns".
This may be an opportunity to both my H and I. However, this time I am living for just me. I will try to avoid him at all costs within the next week. This is not for him, but for me. I know that I am not the one who is UNWILLING to look at myself. When I used to suggest that maybe he talk to someone, his response was always, "why?, I don't have any issues".
Boy, is he living in a fantasy!
So, I will focus on me and continue to detach. I had to stop by my dry cleaner this morning and all the workers commented on how much weight I have lost. It's good that "someone" notices and can share in my happiness about getting that under control. My H doesn't notice a thing even though he use to tell me that he liked it when I was slim.
Oh, whatever, I am feeling good about how I looked which is a far cry from where I was 4 months ago.
Well, I am going for a run today. BTW, I signed up for my first race on 3/14. That was something I never thought I'd do, but I am SOOOOO looking forward to it.
Take Care and will be back on line in a while.
OLD THREAD-http://tinyurl.com/y98nuty Me 44 H 51 T 15 yrs M 9+ yrs No Kids "You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment unless you trust enough."
