Hi maple,

I am the same way. I hold onto things, the anger builds and I become very resentful. H avoids confrontation at all costs. Not very good communication habits.
Hopefully with continued MC sessions the communication between the two of you will improve. Try to bring up some of the more important issues at the MC in a controlled environment. The anger, triggers about the A can take a very looong time to get over. Are you doing IC for yourself? It may help you deal with all that anger.


Me47
H46
S13
M16
Piecing since May/09

"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz