W just told me she wants out

[Lost Rabbit]

Well you could try using Words of Affirmation, but its not about saying "your beautiful darling" " or you look sexy in that" it is about knowing them.. My H said I didnt know him anymore, well its kinda hard playing guess work was my first thought but Im trying much harder to know what he likes and what ways I can show I know him better..

Example:

Xmas Presents

Nice designer jumper because he hadnt felt like spoiling himself before so wanted to show he was worth it.

Aftershave, again something he didnt buy but likes now so chose some thing special.

Camera kit, photography is hobby, important to acknowledge his like/dislikes

Photo Album to put our new shared memories in.

Valentines Day

Handmade card to show him he was special,

Handmade chocolates I made them, putting time and effort into things.

Sprinkled little sparkly hearts over the table (before would have moaned too messy)

Every day

Go into the kitchen for a kiss and taste his cooking, we both cook in this house but again spending time in the kitchen with him I found how much I'd missed it

9pm Cuddle time is sacrosanct, ok it might swing to a bit later but its a must. Cuddle to go to sleep..

Early morning cuddle even if H is getting up early he knows to pull me for a cuddle even if Im half a sleep lol!

Bit of a dead give away but cuddles are so important to H Im thinking of adding a 6LL cuddles lol!

There are tons of things, pick up your W's fav perfume when your out shopping and leave it in her bathroom. Dont make a big thing of it just a suprise..

Can you cook? Well get going and start learning even if its beans on toast on a night she is really tired or arrange a take away..

The list is endless just ask the girls on here lol!

Ok its really uncomfy at the moment but it can and will get better even if its hard work. Just do a few things dont over do it as you will get accused of smothering her.