My H came back just before Xmas and is still here.. Its not easy but it just takes patience. What were her LL's they will help you in doing thing to make her feel cherished but without necessarily touching her unless of course one of hers is physical touch.
Space is the most important thing Ive found, we have serious money problems because of us living apart for six months, we are both worried half to death about it but accept there is nothing we can do.. Giving each other space has helped, remember she has been used to being without you for a while..
Im off to read the rest of your thread but just wanted to let you know youre not the only one piecing tentively! (())
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Once lost but now found and happily married again!