Well, W has been home 3 weeks. We talk better now than we have for a long time. I read the 5 love languages and would like to apply some of those things from that book but don't want to push too much. I have said little things to let her know what she means to me and have hugged her at times. Twice she has initiated a hug. My fear is that we will fall into the same situation as before. Me trying to get close to her, hugging her and telling her how I feel but then backing off because she doesn't return any feelings. I thind that's why we grew apart before. Does anyone have any insight or ideas?