I wouldn't tell him anything. Go NC. That is what he wants, a D. That means NC with you. You need to communicate that to him by doing it. Not talking about it. That will probably be a 180 for you. Just guessing.
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OP-how do you feel on telling the kids the truth about the OW?
I wouldn't. It is controlling from you. They need to make there own decisions. You concentrate on being the best MOM you can be. They will figure out for themselves about their DAD. Give them credit for having their own brains and being able to make their own decisions. It may take longer but it will be a better outcome.
