Thought I was done

[The Wifey]

I'm still 30 pounds down from when this started, and my hair is noticeably thinner.

OK, cheap opportunity for self-pity. So what...

I'm back to about 122 pounds from a low of 104. My Doctor was not happy with me when I dropped that low.

See if you keep rescuing then nothing changes. She made a choice and choices have consequences. Sometimes the best thing to say is nothing when she makes statements like that. Just take it in and look at her quietly.