Burt, you are so RIGHT! You can say as many words as you want and it won't have the impact that actions will. Don't tell me, show me!
The pain is the hardest part in the early days. I know. Sometimes you just have to let yourself cry it out. Once you cry until you can't cry any more you get a little break. Its nothing to be ashamed of. The secret is you don't let HER know. Around her you are calmer and cooler.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.