Today is the first chance I have had to get back on her in a few days, I had work and the little men with me. I am going to take some time to read through you post when I am not so tired. There are many valid points you have mede and I have some info that may help to paint a more clear picture.
I live in Northern California, I will research a fathers rights group in my area. If any of you know of any resources I could use please let me know.
Tomorrow after picking up the little men we will be heading to my brothers house a few hours away for his bithday, My kids will get to play with their cousins and we will all get a nice change of scenery.
By the way, the respondent followed through on her promise to print and sign the changes to the holday schedule. Though she has still avoided the issue of the Martin Luther Kng Holday. She apparently still doesn't want that to be on the holiday schedule for whatever reason.
I don't know how big a deal this stuff is. Seems small to me. I KNOW, "there's always a principle" but do NOT sweat the small stuff and most of the stuff IS small...that's how courts see it and they have a point. Your real issue is that you want to be able to rely on her signature to mean something so you can have a life and your kids can predict their's... and she cannot change on a whim, which she has a lot of these day...THAT is a reasonable qualm to have WOM...but the details are going to annoy a judge and make you look petty and controlling. So again, pick those battles wisely. Let her hang herself with her mood swings etc...
Got it? Good...no I don't personally know a dad's advocate. I had a woman attorney from a mid-large firm with a branch devoted just to family law, and my L only does that type of law and is willing and able to try a case if need be. I liked her a lot, we eventually became friends and she even talked me into filing for the sep INSTEAD of a div, b/c she believed we had a chance at recon...she was right. I think she was sent from the big guy upstairs.... Anyhow, gotta go, take care=== j-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
