HC, one of my rules is that the lines of communication are *always* open when it comes to coparenting. My children are not going to get caught in the cross-fire of any mindgames going one between H and I. I would recommend that you respond promptly and politely to any communication regarding the children if you wish him to do the same. I am being ultra-cooperative and respectful in the coparenting R with my H, because that sets a precedent for how we are going to operate in the future. We have a 3 yo too -- that's 15 years of coparenting dependent children ahead of us!!


me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4
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