What about the REAL issue here? Have you had a talk with your D? See how she feels? You should look into C for her if needed.
She's only 3 so I dont know what/how I should talk to her about any of this. My L might be able to tell me more about that...as they may have a childrens C that they work with.
And I wanted to say that I think I finally learned what doing something for "you" means tonight.
I told you all about the date I had scheduled...and despite being served today I went on it anyway. I think it was the best thing I could have done and I wish it could have happened about a month ago...as I dont think I would have
We just hung out as friends...but the boost to my self-esteem at having someone just spend time with me was amazing. Even if I gain nothing more than a friend, I came to realize that there is more to life than my ex, and that I'll be fine no matter what. I also dont feel bothered by my ex and OM...as long as D3 isnt exposed to any shenanigans...they can do whatever they want. The hate and anger has subsided...and it's almost indifference at this point.
As I said...I wish this had happened a month or two ago. Then I might not have been served with custody papers.
