You: He has to move by April all of a sudden, so whoopdido, LFA has to march to that.
Me: He has to move out of 9 month lease in May, so Aver's gotta get all healed up and over this and move on out--on his timetable.
Yeah, great.
Since you are in the same spot as me with the NC, I don't have any words of wisdom about how to say to him: WTF? what up with April? I am looking for apts. and will move ASAP, but can't guarantee a move-out date. Maybe you can use your lawyer for that.
Another parallel!! you know that part of my stress is that X will move himself and gf into the month-to-month apt. as soon as it is available. So, great, we both have X's living in the same house, basically.
Would your H move his OW into the apt with him?
Is this something that can be negotiated in the D papers?
How is your re-eval of your L going?
I'm thinking about you tons, and sending you good thoughts.
Be well.
Me: 44 Him: 42 Together: 23 years; never married Bomb: August 1, 2009 Affair since May 2009 Walk away; no conversation; no process
