I have been reading a book about getting past your breakup. Although things do change when you are officially divorced, I do think that the GAL advice is the best advice you can possibly offer to someone in such a situation. Learning to take care of myself has been good for me, and I realize that I still have a long way to go!
Got another one of those long looks from X. At this point I don't pay it much heed. I continue to converse only as it pertains to our D and basically am just enjoying life and trying to learn from this experience and come out of it as a better person.
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D