I have been reading a book about getting past your breakup. Although things do change when you are officially divorced, I do think that the GAL advice is the best advice you can possibly offer to someone in such a situation. Learning to take care of myself has been good for me, and I realize that I still have a long way to go!

Got another one of those long looks from X. At this point I don't pay it much heed. I continue to converse only as it pertains to our D and basically am just enjoying life and trying to learn from this experience and come out of it as a better person.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D