Maybe someday our MLCer's will realize this was a consequence of their actions. Won't hold my breath as far as my H is concerned though. lol
Write it down b/c they rewrite this history just like they rewrote history before the affairs. I don't know if I will reopen the notebooks of pain in the future but if my W and I reconcile and she wants to know, I will let her read actual history.
You should write down about his bf's surgery, that is amazing. I try to keep my W informed about what is going on with the kids. Sometimes she could care less or is not as enthusiastic as I am.
They do remember the things they do, they just push way down.
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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.
