I am here everyone... I will continue my postings here.
I guess, especially after re-reading all of the advice and the recent "Do Not Do" list by E2, it is apparent that my approach is not working and has possibly added to my H feeling os frustration pushing him further into MLC.
I guess, I am just worried that he will deploy and I will be left with not KNOWING where we TRULY stand and if their is hope. Maybe this is not important. I just want him to NOT file.
I have to let him decide. This is just so frustrating because "they" are the ones who "betrayed" the marriage. Okay, I have vented for the evening.
My H plans to move back into our home on Sunday into a spare bedroom. Again, as I said on my "separated" thread, I try to will NOT be here when he arrives.
This is the hardest thing I have ever had to do to see if there is a chance to perserve my M - having to wait and bite my tongue when I have so much to say. I have to Detach from my own emotions while loving my H from a distance.
I think the advice I have received is great. I will only speak in basics for the next week or until he has something he would like to offer (I am normally the one who tries to engage conversation). Good morning.....good night....
Thoughts?
OLD THREAD-http://tinyurl.com/y98nuty Me 44 H 51 T 15 yrs M 9+ yrs No Kids "You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment unless you trust enough."
