You right, it is not mediation. However, in my state they MANDATE that you sit down with L and STBXW to try and hammer out agreement before you can even go to a pretrial hearing so that is what we are doing.
I like your keyword thing though, I will bring that up with my L! Thanks!
I plan on not talking to stbxw at all, unless directed to do so..
Thanks again man, I am not looking forward to this, but it is something that must be done..
M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09
On board the D train now..
"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."
