Pdt,
I don't think she is really controlling. I think she just feels upset over some of my comments about her and some personal stories I shared. The main issue is that her family and I are very close and they are very open and supportive of me and hope to have a lasting relationship with me even after this is all done. I think she feels betrayed, (I think they just love us both) and I understand that my relationship with them does become conflicting once we are no longer married. I am not going to just drop my relationship with her family so that it is more convenient for her, so we will just have to figure out a way to make it work.


me 31
her 31
ilybinilwy 10-2-09
i moved out 12-13-09
boy 7
girl 3
boy 16 months