Ex has been served. It was done at work. CJ, the server, walked into his work and his uncle (also boss) recognized him right away and said "He's right in the back." The back meaning the kitchen. CJ asked "You don't mind me walking back there?" and uncle said, "nope, not at all. Go right ahead". I think his uncle knows what an arse ex is and deserves what he gets.
Ex didn't say anything to me later that night when he drove the boys home. But he did TM me later saying, "I got papers today. Did you really not get those payments?" I wrote back, "Stop playing games. You know damn well I didn't get them. I have been telling you for over 2 months. You left me no choice". I haven't heard from him since.
Also, an update on my dad. Turns out his bad headache, nausea, and dizziness were all from his blood pressure medication. As soon as he stopped taking it, he felt better.
However, the marking on his brain that showed up on the catscan and MRI was from an old stroke he never knew he had. It was on a part of his brain that would not affect the body so he had no symptoms.
He is supposed to be on oxygen too but he is so damn stubborn he doesn't want to take it. My mother is tired of fighting him over it. You can lead a horse to water but you can't make him drink it.