How about you don't tell her either one. That isn't giving up, dear. Sometimes the best thing to do sometimes is NOTHING.

I have to be going, so I won't be able to respond right away. I'm at a library and heading home.

Get the appointment before you say anything to her.


Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08,
S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012!
Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.