Listen, if you want to tell her you are going for treatment, then do it when you have an appointment and then follow through.
yes....actions must support the words!! But women need words, too, so be sure to tell her or send her an email after you set the appt. If you say "I'm going to" then that is useless. If you say "I have already__" then that has more weight!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004