She probably already knows! Listen, if you want to tell her you are going for treatment, then do it when you have an appointment and then follow through. I don't know your wife or if it will make a difference. But you can't be as strong as you need to be while this is the case.
I take zanax for anxiety when I need it, which isn't all the time. It takes affect in about 10 minutes. But that is only step one of changing things. You can't pop a pill and go to one appointment to end the problems. It will take time.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.