H's bf is my bgf's husband. We've done quite a few things together as couples. My H has cut out everyone from our life together, including our friends. He now only associates with ow's family and friends.
I actually found it rather curious that he even asked me why I hadn't told him about bf's step father's death as he hasn't contacted any of our friends since he left. (except the one time about the buck contest at work.) H also asked S26 why he hadn't told him about it.
H is so out of the loop that he doesn't know that his bf hasn't even been to work for a few weeks due to a surgery that he had to have.
Maybe someday our MLCer's will realize this was a consequence of their actions. Won't hold my breath as far as my H is concerned though. lol