crushed, what do you do after the A

[pearlharbr]

There wasn't a fourth person in my sitch, OW was single. (She's a serial cheater, BF was the third married/committed man she's been involved with that I know of so not surprising she's single.)

If you're still debating whether or not to tell OW's SO, put yourself in her place. Would you want to be the only person out of the loop? This is especially important if OW is still trying to contact your SO.

I know it can be hard to let go of thoughts of OW. I decided that I wasn't going to give her any more power. She wasn't worth my thoughts/energy. I suggest blocking OW on FB to remove the temptation.

Did your SO write a no contact letter that you read, approved and sent to OW?