Had you actually followed the advice and began the legal framework for joint custody WEEKS ago as it was suggested to you instead of doing all the crap you were doing maybe you would not be in this position.
That's true. The only reason I didnt start it weeks ago was because I didnt want to make my ex mad or hurt her...I was still under the impression that she would change her mind.
I'm sorry I didnt listen. Of course the good thing about this is once its settled then it's not as if I have to worry about custody anymore.
