Tal you are so right. Even though it's just a click of the mouse, it is something that's totally Public. Now it's out there for the whole world to see.

I was the same when I changed my status to Single. It hurt so much to finally come to the realization that 24 years of my life with W was gone forever. M is so much more that a bit of paper with some signatures on it.

No matter what though, we will always have the good memories of our M's, and there are so many.

I know that the future holds just as many, probably more good times and that I'll be able to look back happily on my new life when I'm old and grey(er).

The rest of our lives will be what we make of them, make it count.

Take care


H: 44
W: 42
Married: 23 years
Bomb: 16/07/2009
PA Confirmed: 16/01/2010
Over it & working on ME: Feb'ish 2010