Did you tell 4th person of affair. I'm going to try and find your post. Finding lots of help in reading others stich.
Just scheduled a retreat weekend in April. First time away by myself since the kids born. I'm going to get some me time this weekend, running in the mornings.
Checked out OW's facebook for the 10th time. Not a good idea. I feel like I spend more time focused on OW than SO.