Crushed, Might I suggest you move yourself and your children to close to your new job but still in your current state. You may get in trouble for taking the kids to another state. If you leave - do not leave your kids or you won't get them back. You have equal rights until the D is filed and possession is most of the law at that point. Plus - it sounds like she's a bad influence right now they need to be protected from that. She may not be a bad mother but I think she's probably having some negative influence on them.
Just my thoughts.. FWIW...
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ME28,WAH30, M 5YRS, T 7YRS ,OW/ILYBNILY/SEP 9/09 Served with D papers 6/6/10 Current
