Your wife deserves to know the truth behind your behavior. Will she go to MC with you? You can do IC and MC at the same time.Are you taking meds?

If you want to stay married I think you tell her that you are doing all of these things, you love her, want your marriage and don't want to lose her. See what she says.

In your case, you might want to do some pursuing to convince her you are serious, since pursuing would be a 180 of your previous behavior (distancing/rejecting). I don't know what the vets would say about this and am just thinking about it for you...


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004