Thanks for everyones concern,
I am at a friends and have had a couple of days of peace. However, H did tell my friend yesterday that he has made an appt with his L to file. I guess when he first saw L, they just wrote up the paper work and H didn't have him file yet. But now he say's he is ready. He told my friend that I don't really love him, and that it will never work between us.


Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10