Thanks for everyones concern, I am at a friends and have had a couple of days of peace. However, H did tell my friend yesterday that he has made an appt with his L to file. I guess when he first saw L, they just wrote up the paper work and H didn't have him file yet. But now he say's he is ready. He told my friend that I don't really love him, and that it will never work between us.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10