Well tomorrow is the big meeting with W to discuss dividing our things. It's so hard to think about sitting there with the woman I love to doscuss dividing our things. It's like another step in the process of D. I haven't seen my W in weeks. I will keep the meeting strictly business, remain calm, validate, and stand my ground. I have no doubt that she will get at some point during the meeting with some of the issues that I am standing firm on. If it happens then it happens. I keep reminding myself that we are there to discuss these things but I don't have to make any decisions tomorrow. I will give myself time to think.

I keep telling myself that I am doing the right things with GAL, my new job(s), etc. Feel like I still have time in this process with W, just give it time. This gets so frustrating at times.


M 38
WAW 36
Together 19 years
Married 12 years
Bomb/Separated Oct. 09
I love my wife
Sitch