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1) Can I forgive myself of am I a little too confortable in the role of victim?


Are you really a victim? Or is that some stereotype you learned somewhere?

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2) The fear of loosing my wife is probably a bigger sign that I have some insecurity issues to deal with. What R they and how do I deal with them?


Very good question....What are they? Only you know that one.

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3) We all claim to be patient...can I REALLY be patient? Can I live in a world that I do not control?


Do you really think that you control the world?

Getting better Eric...I was only two rephrase two this time. Question two is for you to answer...we are all awaiting your answers.

"Be the changes you want to see in the world"