Jeff, thanks I totally agree. It is obvious even with how he blows off what's happening to the kids, that he doesn't care what I or anyone has to say!
My phone is not working properly, I just sent H a text meant for a (girl) friend. She was teasing me about going out Sat night and said something about work. I replied that I wouldn't be in today, home with S3 who is sick and that "it's not a thing just a drink and some fun, brat." This is not about anyone, but he is upset. He sent back -wrong person....nice. Do I explain this isn't about a date or guy? I don't think even if it was that it is any of his business, but I don't know what I want to do at this point DB or give up. He can do what he wants right?
Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option.