I decided to give you a bit of a better answer. My H, is in his second round with the MLC mothership.
The first two A's, were during the first time, which ended in 2000. While I was not MLC knowledgable at the time, I knew even then that there was something more than a simple A or two going on. I had a small child, my H's presence afforded me the opportunity to be a stay at home mother, which my S needed. I loved my H, I still do. Many many reasons.
Then good years for a while. There were no OP during the good years. MLC event number two began in 07 and I would not believe it was MLC, no matter how many times I read the script (hell I could have written it with all that I had heard between the two episodes). Took me a year, to decide that I really believed it even though people around me did.
So that is the reason. We now have a mutual understanding within our situation, and we will be D'd when our S is 18.
My entire M was not a horrible one, and my H is not a horrible man. He is simply confused. I hope that this answered your question a little bit better.
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
