LR-thankyou! All my questions to H were all emotional and you are right..knowing the answers or hearing him validate will not help! Yes, I do feel daft..lol!
NM-my DIL's uncle and aunt divorced about 3 yrs ago and are on their way to reconciling! Is your sis's marraige better than ever?
Talked to L today and do feel a little better. Told her the emailing the wrong pastor story and laughed but advised me against finding the correct one and talking to him. She was not opposed, however, to writing an anonymous letter to OW's family in that they are all from this religion and may not know the whole story. My H is renting a house from her family.
In my state, all property/debts is 50/50. He has offered me full custody so the only thing that I can contest is that he thinks that our marraige is not fixable. This will buy me some time. We can ask that he take some counseling...believe me that will irritate him if he is forced to do that! He doesn't "believe" in that!
In the end, what will be, will be but it feels nice to at least have a little control. Am glad that I don't have to see him for a couple of days now!
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing
