I suppose it's just the wounds of betrayal, and abandonment- the fact that a R can sour to this extreme defies my belief in Love and Friendship.
And yet. Here you are talking with someone 2000 miles away who will take time out of his day to check in on you. Listen to you, offer advice, take advice, and just be a friend. What ever you need. As I know you would do the same.
I got ya on the alt.
Have you ever thought of using some of your work's resources to deal with your wife's issues?
Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul. unconditional love is awesome!