OTMT, you obviously do not understand detachment. It's not about physically or emotionally leaving or being absent. It's about not depending on anyone else for your happiness, not being co-dependent. It's about taking responsibility for your own emotional well being and allowing others to take responsiblity for theirs. Perhaps you should also do some reading on the topic. Because on page 139 of DR in the list of Mandatory Do's When Divorce Busting, number 8 is "Read as much as you can on this subject."
