Last night WAW texted me after work: "wanna come over,". This from the woman who up until now didn't want me anywhere near her apartment. Initially, with DB principles in mind, and beacause I was very tired, I politely declined the offer. After a few more texts, my willpower (or won'tpower) died and I was on my way.
Within less than 15 minutes, at her suggestion we were in her bedroom. It was much better than the quickie a couple weeks ago. We lied in bed and talked for a while later and then talked a while in her living room before I left.
She still plans on moving to a 2 bedroom apt next door, even though that means re-signing a one year lease and extending the time frame to possibly come home by 3 months - at least from that point of view.
She said many times that she misses me and I admitted same. I think it was time to be honest. I also said that while I now know we needed time apart, I am ready for her to come home anytime, but only if things will be better. I put no pressure on her, and said I understand if she's not there or even close.
I have to admit, that it was kind of exciting and if this continues I have the best of both worlds in some ways - except for the financial aspects of running two residences.
We are still considering a spring vacation together. I'm not sure what is best there.
My D18 and S16 know where I was last night and are aware that this was a big step for my wife. They are quite intuitive and likely know what occured.
This is getting stranger day by day!!! Now what???
All comments and feedback appreciated. Yes, Puppy, even yours - although driving home last night, I actually thought this would bring admonishment from you. At least I thought of you then, not during...................
