So would you place not confessing the A into the same category of not apologizing for an A? Guess you would have to if you didn't confess it, right?
I don't think that is what anyone said.
If there was a A and it was known there is the need for forgiveness and a apology. There is a reason when people are in ICU they withold emotional harm from them. If asked it should be honestly answered but don't throw gas on the fire. Retro sounds like maritial ICU to me.
I see the damage it could possibly do if found out later. So are we forgiving the person or their behavior? Or is it possible to seperate the two? An affair is definetly a emotional wound that is tough to heal.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.