Thanks flowmom.

I actually consider affair-busting part of getting a life. The affair will consume you otherwise... BUSTING that up is the first step to taking your dignity and life back... the affair if not addressed will consume the abandoned spouse... clearly this is a bad thing.

Getting up, getting out, doing a variety of activities including exposure of the affair will get blood flowing again. I certainly do not reccomend hiding out in a safety zone waiting for the phone to ring... that's the LAST place I would reccomend anyone be during the exposure phase of an affair.

If I understand mb28's plan correctly, she's staying with a friend at this point, which should help that along?

Please confirm mb28 that you are NOT at home anymore, please tell us you are with a friend and exposed to some positive stuff now... smile