flowmom | shifting from devastated to rebuilding

[newmama]

I know it sounds cliche, but my coach told me to look like I did when we were dating, to try and remember how I acted....

so although I got used to wearing my stylish turquoise framed glasses, I went back to contacts. I started wearing my hair down every day, and even similar eye make up as to when we dated. I looked in some old pictures and saw that I wore form fitting shirts and jeans. I act bubbly and sometimes make sexual comments (i.e. at TV shows or if something comes up) BUT I will not flirt with him- he is with another woman! In your case, you might try sometime????