crushed, what do you do after the A

[pearlharbr]

It's great that you're both reading the book and talking. That's what we did except we used our weekly talks to work through the ATA exercises.

You need to find time to GAL. I know it may be difficult to find time with little ones but it is of the utmost importance. You need to find that independent person inside and work on being a person you like. Schedule your me time into your week. Get a sitter or swap babysitting with a friend so each of you gets alone time.

Piecing is hard work. It's going to be difficult for a while. That's why you need to remember to be good to yourself.