Same here for me too. My w was not cheating on me 10 years ago but she started withholding sex about 1 year after being together. Wedding night: no sex
Honeymoon: no sex
Numerous anniversaries:no sex
Time to have a baby: lots of sex

I put up with having sex only 8 to 10 times a year for atleast 10 years. We talked about hormones, low drive, blah, blah and then I get THE BOMB. I am done now. I fully understand you wanting to leave after reading your posts. Take care of yourself!

Me 35
Wife 34
Two daughters 8 years and 3 years
Bomb 3/30/09
W filed 4/16/09
We met in'92 married in 2000
Divorce final