LOL, I am sorry for the delay...argggg! Frustrating!
I too know what you mean...feel like a lot of wasted time...for me it was 2.5 years, the last 2.5 years. There was one point where I was so angry I said to myself that the entire 13 years was a waste...but that was the anger talking.
I want the same........someone who will treat me well!