I would tell her you would be happy to put the children on your benefits package but that is it. Once again she is attempting to have the perks of marriage without being in the marriage.
Provided she reimburses you for 1/2 the difference between single and family coverage .....
Kevin...I really hope you are not considering putting her on your insurance!
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!