Originally Posted By: gr8 day 2B alive
DDAy,

What do you mean about mind set?


AS you just responded to KS, you are doing this all wrong.

The changes, ARE FOR YOU, not for your W, not for her to feel comfortable with you.

Once you change FOR YOU and become comfortable in your own skin and not being your W's doormat, she'll respect you again enough to want to be with you again.

The list of things you posted up as an example of your "changes" would have been great when you were happily married. But you're here, you're not happily married anymore and need to realize that, that type of behavior is just pushing her out even more!

Last edited by dday101798; 02/19/10 05:14 PM. Reason: fat finger typing
Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11