Spouse Suffering From Depression

[Lucky11too]

So, not sure what to make of yesterday. H texted me in the afternoon to get more info on the ENT dr and then we kind of texted back and forth about dr stuff - mostly businesslike, but I would try to throw in a few flirty comments now and then. I told him the pool instruction video had come in (he asked me to get it for him b/c he is teaching a group next week at work) and we had talked about us watching it too, so I could get better (after my v-day basic instruction from H). I brought up watching it last night or this weekend and all I got back was a "where is it being delivered too". Ok, that's just annoying - way to avoid my question! When I went to pick up S, no H again. He had left a little bit before. I don't know if he had work or what (doesn't usually work Wed or Thurs nights anymore, but he could have picked up a shift). I tried to play it all cool, but I just wanted to see him - I hadn't seen him since v-day! I left very annoyed and was basically in a whatever mood now. That night, H texts me to ask about S and then we texted back and forth a bit about how big S was getting. That was that so I went to bed, but then i got a text at 3 in the morning asking if I wanted to hang out tonight or as he calls it, have a "slumber party". Stupid, huh. I just said "sounds good. Good night" and then no other response from H since. I just don't understand how we are good about responding and how they can be so good at not responding. Several times this weeks, he has totally ignored or avoided my texts. Whatever, I think I'm just a little bit tired and grumpy right now...