Wow, all my sympathy to you today. I couldn't even imagine losing my father. But now I do see why you are such the strong woman that you are today. When you go thru something like that it definitely grows you up quickly for better or for worse.
Haha, hope that sophmore takes your advice to heart. It could save her from a lot of the heartache we're experiencing!
I think we are all kind of at the same place here - where we of course would like our H's to come home and be the loving H's they COULD be, but on the other hand, there's that uncertainity that things never will truly change and we'll be stuck in this, well, hell of a M forever, which we don't deserve. But like you said, either way these sitch's go, it's still going to be difficult and a lot of work, but just in different ways.
Me 27; H 28; S 2 Togeth 9; M 4 Sep 11/14/08 EA OW1 Sep 08 EA OW2 Mar 09 EA OW3 Jun 10