Need Help! - Am I wrong? Should I hold out Hope?

[newmama]

Something about mirroring that doesn't make sense-if they are in a bad mood, it doesn't make sense for you to be in a bad mood, too!

Destiny, I'm so deeply sorry for the pain you have experienced in your life. Sorry if I forgot but are you going to IC?

I think you should
a) give him space- if he moves back in, avoid him
b)give yourself permission to work on you meaning go to IC and GAL, just do not focus on him right now
c)be polite but don't bend over backwards for him
d) NO MORE R talk

keep posting! And rememeber some of what he said is blameshifting- so the last 2 years have been hard, this makes sense. But "being disappointed" because you didn't turn out to be the woman he expected is just ridiculous....and blaming you for his actions. For God's sake, marriage is supposed to be a built in support system for husband and wife as we change and experience bad as well as good things in life!