Long night. Baby had a fever most of the day yesterday and last night. Does not sleep well when she doesn't feel good. Hoping it goes away today.
Exh sent a text asking how she was...I told him she had a fever and wasn't doing well. His response.."oh, yeah me too. I don't feel well at all." I laughed. Nobody can ever be sicker than exh. If someone is sick, he is sicker. All about him.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
Exh sent a text asking how she was...I told him she had a fever and wasn't doing well. His response.."oh, yeah me too. I don't feel well at all." I laughed. Nobody can ever be sicker than exh. If someone is sick, he is sicker. All about him.
Wow, he does always make it about him doesn't he? Sois today a visit day? Will he try to visit or is he setting up the sick excuse?!
PS. When I gave birth to our second child my X got sick and spent about a week in bed....the amount of time he had scheduled to take off and help me out! LOL
"You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf." Jon Kabat-Zinn
Exh sent a text asking how she was...I told him she had a fever and wasn't doing well. His response.."oh, yeah me too. I don't feel well at all." I laughed. Nobody can ever be sicker than exh. If someone is sick, he is sicker. All about him.
Wow, he does always make it about him doesn't he? Sois today a visit day? Will he try to visit or is he setting up the sick excuse?!
PS. When I gave birth to our second child my X got sick and spent about a week in bed....the amount of time he had scheduled to take off and help me out! LOL
LOL yes...its all about him. He never called to check on her again last night either. I know it fits the pattern, but if my D was sick I would be checking in.
Today is a visit day. My guess is he will try and come early. I am not going to answer. Baby and I need rest today. He can come this afternoon if he chooses. I highly doubt he is even really sick. He always has some sort of ailment for attention.
Good story about when you had your child. Babies. I had a Csection with this baby and he got to spend the 5 days in the hospital with me to help me with baby etc. He slept the entire time, complained of how tired he was, wanted me to give him my pain meds to help him sleep. Oh yes...great memories!
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
OMG. He wanted your pain meds?! Okay, he wins the biggest A$$ award!
Hes an Rx addict. I was given Percocet and they were making me really sleepy so I was hesitant. He told me to save them for him. When I was sent home with a prescription for Vicodin I had to hide them as he was taking them.
Just watched Tiger Woods speech. I liked it alot. He was humble and broken and seemed sincere. I wish all WS were that humble.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
I listened to some of it on a radio broadcast. Without seeign his face it is hard for me to get a read emotionally, but he sounded a little robotic, not exceptionally sincere. I will have to watch it later to see the difference.
"You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf." Jon Kabat-Zinn
I listened to some of it on a radio broadcast. Without seeign his face it is hard for me to get a read emotionally, but he sounded a little robotic, not exceptionally sincere. I will have to watch it later to see the difference.
He seemed really sincere. I just watched the whole thing again. I know he did horrible things, but he is trying to make it right and show some integrity. Can't change the past, but he can do things different in the future.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
Exh just sent a text wanting to come by now (noonish) as he has a busy afternoon and he had my CS check! WTF! I said I was laying down with baby and he could leave it under the mat if he wasn't going to come this afternoon. He said he will bring it tomorrow.
Wow. I don't know why it continues to amaze me. Busy afternoon? Seriously!
Fine by me though. I can relax knowing I don't see him today.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
No, you jacka**! I didn't even respond. When 3:00 rolls around I will answer his question.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
