No not really. But my thinking is probably in error regarding this. I am trying to figure out my W and what exactly is going on. I get it but I don't and I think I need to sit back and not worry about it and follow my lesson that I learned.
I didn't think so. I had read and re-read what you were trying to say...and I was trying to figure out what you were asking...and I missed it, too, whatever it was..though what I posted was true as to what I think...I'm sorry.
You're trying to analyze what's going on...and since this is so confusing, you're not sure exactly how you're supposed to go about this.
It's normal to get it but not get it..understanding comes for people at different times in this. In alot of ways, you're afraid she won't come through without your help..and your fears bother you. I understand this very well....letting go is one of the hardest things to do in this...and accepting the fact we cannot help them; not at all. The MLC'ers are on their own..and any interference on LBS' part will cause them to backslide and run farther away.
Follow the lessons as you learn them....it doesn't matter where she is...the "plan" such as it is in MLC will be followed to the finish line; on her timetable, not yours.
Things will become more clear as she moves along, and your understanding WILL increase, given time.
Gotta run for now, too.
Remember, as each person is different, every MLC/Transition is different..what works for one may not work for another. Most of the time it is trial and error for ALL involved.
